She’s more to be pitied than censured

AKA
First Published 1898
Writer/composer William B. Gray Roud RN15477

Music Hall Performers Burt Shepard
Folk performances Collected from the singing of:
Kenny, Jack ; Canada : Ontario ; 1971
Pack, Loye ; USA; no date
Blackburn, Sam ; USA : California : 1939
Woodward, Happy Jack ; USA : Michigan : 1938
Tipton, Mrs. Otis ; USA : Tennessee : 1930/31
Ling, George ; England : Surrey ; 1971
Robinson, Tommy ; England : Yorkshire : 1972
Smith, Ruth ; USA : Maryland : 1929
French, Seann ; Ireland ; Co. Wexford : 1992
Richardson, Samuel B. ; USA : Delaware : 1941
Shaw, Mary ; USA : California : 1963
Sutton, Albert ; USA : West Virginia : 1939

Modern performances
The Stanley Brothers, Julie Andrews, The Grateful Dead

SHE'S MORE TO BE PITIED THAN CENSURED

At the old concert hall on the Bowery,
'Round a table were seated one night,
A crowd of young fellows carousing
With them life seemed cheerful and bright.
At the very next table was seated
A girl who had fallen to shame,
All the young fellows jeered at her weakness,
Till they heard an old woman explain:

She is more to be pitied than censured,
She is more to be helped than despised.
She is only a lassie who ventured
On life's stormy path, ill-advised;
Do not scorn her with words fierce and bitter
Do not laugh at her shame and downfall.


There's an old-fashioned church 'round the corner
Where the neighbors all gathered one day,
While the parson was preaching a sermon
O'ere a soul that had just passed away;
'Twas this same wayward girl from the Bow'ry
Who a life of adventure had led.
Did the clergyman jeer at her downfall?
No! He asked for God's mercy, and said:

A sentimental American song from the late 1890s which was also a hit in the British Halls for Burt Shepard. It has been collected from traditional singers in England, Ireland and America.

Sources:

  • Entries in the Roud Indexes at the Vaughn Williams Memorial Library: https://archives.vwml.org/search/all:single[folksong-broadside-books]/0_50/all/score_desc/extended-roudNo_tr%3A15477